Major restructure: - Split card_database.md into index (5.4KB) + individual card files (cards/*.md) - 13 cards total: 9 existing + 4 new critical cards New cards added: - ACTION-006: Financial Security Setup (Wise/Stock/Estonia + France 3500€ lesson) - ACTION-007: Income Generation (Freelance/Fiverr/Malta/LinkedIn pro) - FUTURE-001: Wedding Ceremony Savings (monthly tracking until ceremony happens) - FUTURE-002: Traditional Chinese Wedding Gifts (cultural respect + budget) Benefits: - Scalable structure (can handle 100+ cards easily) - Easier maintenance (edit one file per card) - card_database.md stays lightweight as index - Clear naming (complacency_problem.md vs CORE-001) Updated CLAUDE.md with new selection process (read database → select 3 → read individual cards) 🤖 Generated with [Claude Code](https://claude.com/claude-code) Co-Authored-By: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>
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Card: Communication Paradox
ID: CORE-002 Created: 07/11/2025 Status: Active
Question
Quel est le paradoxe de communication avec Tingting ?
Answer
Double-bind : Si je dis rien → "tu me dis jamais rien". Si je dis quelque chose de négatif → elle se vénère et retourne contre moi. Si je montre pas d'émotion → "pourquoi t'es pas en colère ?". Résultat : j'évite, ce qui crée de la distance.
Notes
Pattern structurel. Comprendre ça m'aide à naviguer les conversations difficiles.
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