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# Message to Didi (Brother-in-law)
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**Date**: 20 December 2025
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## English Version
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Didi,
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I know you weren't there yesterday, but I wanted to speak to you directly.
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I have caused serious harm to Tingting. I betrayed her trust completely when she was trying her hardest to save our marriage. I lied to her, I put my attention elsewhere, and when we finally had hope on Thursday night, it was already too late - the damage was done.
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You are someone I have always respected. You're smart, you're a good person, and you've always been welcoming to me. Honestly, I wish I had had the courage to talk to you when things started falling apart. Maybe things would have been different.
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I understand the gravity of what I've done - not just to Tingting, but to your entire family. I've brought pain and dishonor where I should have brought respect and commitment.
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I'm deeply sorry for what I've done to your sister and to your family.
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Alexis
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## Chinese Version (中文版本)
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弟弟，
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我知道你昨天不在场，但我想直接跟你说。
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我对婷婷造成了严重的伤害。在她竭尽全力挽救我们婚姻的时候，我彻底背叛了她的信任。我对她撒谎，把注意力放在别处，当我们周四晚上终于有了希望的时候，已经太晚了——伤害已经造成。
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你是我一直很尊重的人。你很聪明，你是个好人，你一直对我很友好。说实话，我希望当事情开始出问题的时候，我有勇气来找你谈谈。也许事情会不一样。
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我明白我所做的事情的严重性——不仅仅是对婷婷，而是对你们整个家庭。我本应该带来尊重和承诺，却带来了痛苦和耻辱。
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我为我对你妹妹和你家人所做的一切深感抱歉。
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Alexis
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